Just by you being alive and reading this,
I know there are many things that you want.

There are many things you already have,
but there’s also countless experiences that you still want,
or even long for.

When I speak about creating authentic attraction,
it sounds like I’m saying sexual attraction.

And though that’s definitely part of the mix,
in essence I’m talking about all of life.

Attractiveness

This is about being attractive to whatever you want from life.
Have you ever thought about it like that?

Yes, you can be attractive to another person,
but attractive to a certain experience or thing?

It reminds me of a quote I posted some time ago:

Attractiveness

or:

The less you’ll need it, the more likely you’ll have it

The Laws of the Universe

I know there are things in your life that you want, or even think you need.
More money, deeper relationships, more time, better health?

Whatever it is, the laws of the Universe work in such a way,
that when you think you “need” it, you create tension inside yourself
that actually makes it harder to have that experience.

The more hung up you are about something,
the further away it will seem. Recognize the feeling?

I know, it sucks! Until you figure out how to work with these laws.

Even though I haven’t presented it like this,
I already wrote quite a few blogs that explain exactly how to do it.
Hear me out:

Stop it!

You can read about the Law of Attraction in many places.
The only thing I’ll say about it here is this:

Life knows your deepest, most intimate longings.
And it has the ability to provide you with the fulfillment of all of them.
Your only job is to stop resisting it’s unfolding.

But how?

Figure out what makes you feel passionate, what excites you,
what inspires and turns you on.

Stop thinking your way around life and start feeling it.
Your feelings are your inner GPS. They’ll show the way.

Simple: Being in alignment feels good. Being out of alignment feels bad.

There’s no need for you to figure out your life’s purpose on the spot.
Just start noticing what makes you feel good and what doesn’t.
That sensitivity will take you all the way.

Indeed it does

Your life isn’t supposed to be “sort-of”, “so-so”, “ok”, or anything like that.
Please don’t get stuck believing that.

Your life is supposed to be amazing.
You are born to be great in your own unique way.

If these words resonate with you,
navigate to my other blogs and use the exercises I offer.

They’ll have you focus on being present, feeling good,
and what you want, instead of the lack of it.

Use it or lose it

They work, but only if you use them.
I don’t care if you take cold showers, exercise,
meditate, write, walk, or undistractify yourself.

Whatever makes you tick brother!
(I can’t choose, and simply use all of them)

Are you ready to be fully alive?
To stop making excuses?

It’s here, right under your nose.
I wish you a 2016 of passion and greatness!

Roald

 

P.S. I really appreciate hearing from you.
Feel welcome to share your insights or comments
below the blog. Thanks, speak soon!

4 gedachten over “Creating Authentic Attraction”

  1. I’m not sure if the things that I long for are in that same category of need. I’ve lost a lot of tension already significantly because of you brother 😉 .

    But to name my most important longings; A longing for intimacy ( not that physical, even though, mainly feeling understood and accepted ), openness, true love (which is for me rational admiration for sound good virtues) honesty openness truth and wisdom. Wisdom to learn and see what is wrong and right, objectively. To be able to coop with life effectively which to me is being successful.
    These things are more like longings and goals and longings I pursue, not that I really need them. I work towards them steadily and patiently.

    1. Sounds great Michel, happy to hear about the greater relaxation you experience!
      And what you describe is exactly how I feel it works:
      When I focus on what I want, without needing it, THAT brings it into my life.
      Keep it up, speak soon!

  2. Hoi brother
    Wens je een geweldig 2016.
    Mooi geschreven. Leuk om even weer aangeraakt te worden. Misschien treffen we elkaar in 2016 .

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